Getting Through Bad days

Please understand that the following post is not medical advice. It is not intended to treat or diagnose any issues. This is simply my experience and may offer ideas to discuss with care providers. I am not an expert , nor to I promote myself as such. I am simply a patient doing the best I can to get through a challenge that I never expected to have. 


I sill have some really bad days. Mine are often due to TBI and the depression that can folow significant brain injury. It doesn't work the same as it did before. Things impact me differently now and they are often erratic in their expression, very little in the way of specific triggers can cause them. some days are simply harder than others. Here is how I try to get through those "bad days".

1. Hydrate; dehydration makes existing brain issues worse. This is always my first step as any dehydration is unable to be tolerated by my brain and it starts to not work correctly. 

2. Get outside. Even if it is just my front porch, breathing fresh air helps. I am lucky to live next to some wilderness areas so walking is doable too. 

3. Good food. When is the last time I ate something good for me? I keep fruit and veggies readily available, sugar is good for a moment but the later crash only makes things worse. It can be fun in the moment, but payback is awful.

4. Exercise. If I haven't done it already, a 15 minute walk works wonders. 

5. Pet therapy. I lost my fur baby of 15 years in October and it has been hard ever since. For right now pictures of her and sitting in my garden where she used to sit with me can help ease things. 

6. Reach out. If I am still funky, or at any point in this whole thing I phone a friend. I may also write in my gratitude journal or write about something I am dealing with on my blog. 

I can't skip the hard stuff, it's real and it happened. Giving it space without judgement while also addressing the physical aspects can help me to get through it. I can tell you that knowing it will end helps me to get though to the point where it's a good day. I try to always remember that there are physical aspects to this. People that say things like- "pull yourself out of it" don't understand all the layers that exist. I try to give my brain and body every reason to have a good day. 

This is a good and beautiful life. it is worth living every minute to the fullest, but that doesn't mean I pretend that things don't hurt sometimes. Pain is part of my journey to teach me humility, but it is not worth choosing to live there. I encourage you, if you are struggling, to seek out the resources you need to find the space to continue healing for you. Brain injury plays a role in my life, but this is still my life and I choose what to allow to expand and grow. I choose to live and to continue learning. God is good and blesses me in so many ways.