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Thursday, July 27, 2017

An open letter to all Senators and State representatives

Dear Senator;

I see today that protections for pre-existing conditions do not yet exist. This saddens me, I am dealing with a brain tumor that rests next to my brain stem, I am also dealing with a dear friend who has had a brain tumor spread.

I want to tell you about him, he is a man of faith and family. He has lived a clean life, is raising three beautiful children with his wife and makes every effort to live ethically and morally well. He doesn't believe in sitting back and waiting for life to happen. He has worked for years in community programs and attended law school while coping with this medical challenge. Yesterday he was taken in for surgery to attempt to remove a tumor that was impacting his speech.

I look at what his family is going through and I know it is not the only story like this. Like me, he does not expect a handout or to take from others. What we do need is a fair chance, to not be taken advantage of, to be treated as individuals worth being protected. We have value and that value is one that teaches compassion and ethical treatment of all individuals. We pay into health care programs and work to our best abilities to make contributions to the community and our families. Through no fault of our own, we have faced a brain tumor diagnosis, no lifestyle choice led to our condition. We don't ask for a handout, all we ask is a chance.

Please, don't make surviving and thriving through a medical crisis a liability. Don't take away protections that would allow insurance companies to prey upon the weak again. Many say it will not happen, sadly this is not true, it already has happened, many times before the ACA. Social media sites are flooded with requests for financial aid and support to help pay for medical costs or claims denied by insurance carriers.

Those of us who fight tumors and cancer are every day warriors. As voices of different experience we offer tremendous value to the world around us. We know what it is to face losing everything. We know the value of the simple and the meek. We know and understand the impact of pain and what it can teach us. We also know the joy of hope and rising through crisis. I think the world needs more hope and not less. We need more triumph in the face of adversity and more grace under pressure. Please protect us from those who would prey upon our times of weakness. Let me continue to be a warrior and fight for my family and the families and lives of those like me. We deserve a fair shot at life, but only you can help us to protect it. We need your help.

May God bless you.